Showing My Son The Ropes Today my son was feeling very insecure about his relationship with his girlfriend. This made me so sad. It turns out he hasn't been satisfying her as much as he thought he was. As his mother, its my duty to fix this and show him the ropes. A mom's gotta do, what a mom's gotta do. xoxo Vivianne DeSilva . Showing My Son The Ropes - Duration: 18 min - Starring:  Vivianne DeSilva  Apollo Banks  Brett Maker .