How To Submit To a Woman. Nina Hartley Presents The Art Of Surrender! Triple-X Legend Nina Hartley knows turnabout is fair play. Here, she provides plenty of pointers on submitting to the "fairer sex" through erotic demonstration and helpful question-and-answer sessions. See Nina take control of a wet and willing Dru Berrymore before Joey Ray gives in to Flick Shagwell's dominant side. You won't want to miss this delicious lesson in obedience..